life has so much meaning !! we were born into this world for a REASON, i believe.
during i.k today, lynn and i were talking to *CACTUS about religion. suddenly, the topic changed , and we were suddenly talking about the topic , LIFE.
*Cactus was talking about how, for him, life is meaningless..
*Cactus : there's no use for me to even be here. might as well i just jump off the third floor of the school, if i die there won't be much difference.. even if i work hard now, in the end i will die , so only my children and grandchildren can enjoy everything .. when i'm old, i'll get sick and in the end i will die. "
>>>> yea, everyone will die in the end. but before you die, don't you want your wife, your children, your grandchildren, your family to have a better life? or do you want them to suffer because you weren't successful enough?! life has meaning, its just the way you live your life..!! if your life feels meaningless, TURN IT AROUND. you have to change it for yourself..!!! make your life have meaning .. god created you for a reason !!
*Cactus : even if i talk to god, He DOESN'T ANSWER !! and i'm just only ONE PERSON , and there are millions of people in this world. even if i am gone, it doesn't make a difference, i'm just ONE PERSON !!
>>>> have faith in god, and he will answer in his own time !! if you don't have faith , god won't answer !! god can help you through everything !! god put you in this world for a reason !! he didn't create you just so you could live, and then DIE. NOOOO !! thats not your purpose !! for us christians, god is always with us, and i'll bet he heard everything that *cactus just said, and is feeling very hurt. although things don't always work out the way we want it, we should know that god gave us a CHOICE. everything we do is by CHOICE. it isn't that He has decided on what happens , he just KNOWS. he gives us choices, but some of us only choose the wrong one. in the end, we blame Him.
>>>>>>> everything we do has a meaning.. imagine us 30, 40, 50 years later .. and all we have of our teenage life is MEMORIES. everything we have is only in our mind, we can't repeat it OVER AND OVER again. so , we should cherish it !!
then, the topic turned to his parents .
Me: do you love your parents or do you hate them?
*Cactus : they locked my comp.!
>>>>>>>> ohhmyygooddd, he hates his parents just because they locked his comp?! i can tell u guys out there, for those of you , your parents stay with you, spare their time to scold you, take time to teach you right from wrong, take things from you , these are GOOD. you should understand, that some parents never take time to be with their children, they spoil their children with stuff, but they never take time to give their children LOVE. LOVE is the most important thing in a family, not ITEMS, STUFF.!!!!
Me: if your parents didn't want you , they wouldn't have given brith to you in the 1st place !!
*Cactus : how would they have known that i would have come out? they might have imagined someone better , like ...
Me: But they still took care of you till now, rite? You're not living in a RUMAH ANAK YATIM, are you? you see, they still care for you. if not you'll be living in a rumah anak yatim now !! but you have a home, a place to live in, food, clothes, a bed to sleep in, they send you to school !! dont you know how lucky you are ?!!!!!
>>>>>>>>> it was so hard to talk to him, listening to him talking abt how life has no meaning .. after all the advice that lynn and i gave him , i hope he takes it ): its just so baddd that someone is thinking that way !!! so stressed =.='' ..
hmm, i hope he changes his thoughts .... ;( i need to praypraypray ..
* Names have been changed to protect privacy.
# guys, i'm sorry for being so *religious* in this post, but its just what i feel ):
SORRY. :(
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